Some people don’t seem to understand humiliation phone sex
They seem to have a very narrow and distorted view of what humiliation phonesex is all about. So we thought we might set the record straight.
Why do people call us for humiliation phonesex? Is it because we start screaming at guys the moment they introduce themselves? Is it because we call all and sundry “loosers” and think let fly a barrage of insults the moment we pick up the phone?
Umm no.
We don’t scream at all. In fact we may come across as quite pleasant and polite when we start talking to you. We’re Southern, and it’s bred into our bones. We can be incredibly mean and vicious, turning the knife and watching you bleed, all the while smiling and laughing, and treating you with utmost respect.
This is a basic tenet of BDSM as we learned/practiced it. We’ve seen so many “dommes” talk about being in a bad mood, and seem to think that’s what they need to practice domination and sadism. Being a domme isn’t about flouncing around and showing your ass to the world. Being a domme is about self-control.
Nor is it about lecturing to everyone about “the right way” to be a submissive. We’re humiliatrices, not hall monitors. We don’t go around with a chip on our shoulder, ready to attack anyone who isn’t like us, then blaming our lack of manners and control on being a domme. That isn’t BDSM; that’s just being a cunt.
The psychological aspect of humiliation phonesex
Being a domme and a humiliatrix is about getting to know a person and what they need. It’s much more psychological than screaming or hurling insults at random people.
Most of our callers are alpha’s and need humiliation phone sex to get away from the responsibilities of the every day world. We get to know our clients, and we have a very playful relationship with most of them. This is very easy to do because we’ve known each other all our lives, and we have a great chemistry together. In fact, we make humiliation look so easy that other people seem to think we’re just novices out for a quick buck.
Yes, there are guys that call us for 5 minutes and want us to hurl insults at them. But these are by and large the minority. Of course, if that’s what they need to get off, we can do that. But what we enjoy most of all is the repertoire we build with our guys, getting to know them more intimately each time they call. And of course, the more intimately we know them, the meaner and more sadistic we can be to them.
Which is our main purpose. The more we get to know you …. The more we get under your skin …. The more needy and dependent become on us …. The meaner we can be to you.
Can you amuse us? Are you an alpha in need of a phone sex humiliation break? Then you should give us a call.
